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Post by i'm very angry on May 17, 2015 20:20:46 GMT
If there's one thing that ruins relationships is confinement and rules
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Post by i'm very angry on May 17, 2015 20:22:20 GMT
well im sort of a lesbian def never heard that awful joke ever
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Post by Puggalo4Lyfe on May 17, 2015 20:23:43 GMT
nothing wrong with it
I think he's trynna say that there is eventually going to be a point where one of you wants to be the ONLY one or something, and that's always gonna end badly for all parties involved. but I don't think that's always the case, I know there's people who can pull it off with no jealousy or resentment, it's just weird because it feels natural to a lot of people (I think) to want to be the one special snow-flake to someone you're close with.
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Post by Puggalo4Lyfe on May 17, 2015 20:28:19 GMT
cheating is different though. if everyone knows then whatever. if you know your significant other would feel betrayed if you boned someone else, you should not be such a puss and either break up with them or show some self-control.
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Post by Deleted on May 17, 2015 20:42:49 GMT
nothing wrong with it I think he's trynna say that there is eventually going to be a point where one of you wants to be the ONLY one or something, and that's always gonna end badly for all parties involved. but I don't think that's always the case, I know there's people who can pull it off with no jealousy or resentment, it's just weird because it feels natural to a lot of people (I think) to want to be the one special snow-flake to someone you're close with. pretty much this I think.
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Post by Deleted on May 17, 2015 20:44:16 GMT
cheating is different though. if everyone knows then whatever. if you know your significant other would feel betrayed if you boned someone else, you should not be such a puss and either break up with them or show some self-control. i feel like these are all directed at me lol. fyi i still feel somewhat bad about it because if i was the guy and i found out my wife or girlfriend was doing it, i would be upset im sure. then sometimes people cheat because they're lacking something, not that it makes it right of course.
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Post by i'm very angry on May 17, 2015 20:55:30 GMT
nothing wrong with it I think he's trynna say that there is eventually going to be a point where one of you wants to be the ONLY one or something, and that's always gonna end badly for all parties involved. but I don't think that's always the case, I know there's people who can pull it off with no jealousy or resentment, it's just weird because it feels natural to a lot of people (I think) to want to be the one special snow-flake to someone you're close with. prob most relationships end eventually and badly so being in an open one really isn't what 'ruins' them it can go well or badly like any other, even though i personally believe that it has better chances due to more honesty and the feeling of freedom obviously it depends on each and everyone's thoughts and feelings about this stuff, monogamy might seem like the 'right' thing but it's no more than an imposed version of romantic relationships by society which is pretty damn limiting considering how different people are and how each one finds happiness, nothing is wrong or unhealthy as long as there's mutual and honest agreement, whether it's monogamy or polygamy or asexuality or wtv
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Post by Patty O'Furniture on May 17, 2015 23:35:50 GMT
I am in an open relationship even though we haven't acted on it lmfao are u so scared of appearing conformist that you have to label your boring old monogomy as being ~dormant polygamy~
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Post by Tyler Legrand on May 18, 2015 0:59:43 GMT
I thought by 'haven't acted on it' meant they haven't gone as far as sex yet, it sounded more like boring platonic friendship atm
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Post by Deleted on May 18, 2015 1:20:48 GMT
Friendship ass to mouth
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Post by Tempest on May 18, 2015 2:31:14 GMT
the human race is naturally monogamous
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Post by Assbong420 ~The Weeder~ on May 18, 2015 2:39:45 GMT
it has better chances due to more honesty and the feeling of freedom monogamy might seem like the 'right' thing but it's no more than an imposed version of romantic relationships by society nothing is wrong or unhealthy as long as there's mutual and honest agreement note the contradiction. it's not unhealthy or wrong, but it's imposed and self-deceiving? while monogamy is certainly the norm and in a marriage standpoint an imposition (which carries some valid moral and legal implications that shouldn't be discarded) I don't necessarily agree that it's restricting of freedom. it might be to people who feel they were dragged into monogamy, but more often than not people draw closer to monogamy because it's the more comfortable arrangement for themselves the reliablity and security of a monogamous relationship is restrictive in some senses but freeing in others. you are having a very one-dimentional view on it I will however say that if you don't organically join in a monogamous relationship and instead force yourself into it for the sake of either comforming to the norm or fearing the insecurity of lacking an emotional anchor, your relationship is very likely to fail. though I guess the same may apply to polygamous relationships, idk
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Post by i'm very angry on May 18, 2015 4:00:46 GMT
it has better chances due to more honesty and the feeling of freedom monogamy might seem like the 'right' thing but it's no more than an imposed version of romantic relationships by society nothing is wrong or unhealthy as long as there's mutual and honest agreement note the contradiction. it's not unhealthy or wrong, but it's imposed and self-deceiving? while monogamy is certainly the norm and in a marriage standpoint an imposition (which carries some valid moral and legal implications that shouldn't be discarded) I don't necessarily agree that it's restricting of freedom. it might be to people who feel they were dragged into monogamy, but more often than not people draw closer to monogamy because it's the more comfortable arrangement for themselves the reliablity and security of a monogamous relationship is restrictive in some senses but freeing in others. you are having a very one-dimentional view on it I will however say that if you don't organically join in a monogamous relationship and instead force yourself into it for the sake of either comforming to the norm or fearing the insecurity of lacking an emotional anchor, your relationship is very likely to fail. though I guess the same may apply to polygamous relationships, idk No i was saying that sometimes people choose monogamy because it's imposed
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Post by i'm very angry on May 18, 2015 4:01:51 GMT
That doesn't mean that every monogamous relationship isn't by genuine desire and as such i have absolutely nothing against it it's as a valid choice as any
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Post by i'm very angry on May 18, 2015 4:02:30 GMT
Good job tho trying to invalidate my own choices by saying i'm just doing it or saying it to be cool
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